Why you need to Become Badass? Stop being Nice!

Why you need to Become Badass? Stop being Nice! :- “You are a good person” or “You are the Nice Guy”, For listening this compliment, People makes huge mistakes in their life and make their life like Hell. Stop being a nice guy Become a Alpha.

What mistakes that Nice people do and How can we get safe from that idiotic thinking?

1. Nice Guys try to change the Priority

From the reference of Book “Who will cry if you die” Robin sharma shared a story of a man named “Mark” who works in a Lighthouse, His duty was to give directions to the ships crossing the sea. Once a old man comes to the light house and asked Mark for oil, as Mark was a nice guy so he given him Oil.

Next day an old woman enters and asked for the oil and mark give her oil, Again next day a poor person came to the lighthouse and asked for oil and so he was helpless Mark given him oil.

4^th Day, The oil was lacked in the lighthouse and Mark was not able to control Lighthouse, In the result the ships coming to that day get Smashed in rocks. From this story we can learn to priorities your work.

An army man never gives anyone permission to cross the border either they are helpless. Your duty is your First priority, due to Making nice image, Mark made a huge mistake. So Prioritize your Work.

Learn to Say No. I Repeat Learn to Say No! learn it today otherwise life will teach you this in Other ways.

2. Gratification

Nice guys help their family for Instant Gratification and not their long term benefits.

There are many parents who tell their teachers to pass their children even there are parents who say teachers to give permission of cheating in class. In long term there is nothing wrong but when that Kid grown up and moved to the actual world then he see that People are very talented and he is nothing.

In this case, Parents tried to be nice for children but actually they are totally wrong. Doing the Homework of your child is very easy task but Teaching them so that they can do it their own is very difficult but gives actual benefit.

3. Nice guys are Dishonest

Imagine that you have an important presentation tomorrow and if you do great there then you will get a boost on your career but if you Did something wrong then everyone makes fun of you because these people are very intellectual.

You called your Intelligent friend who is a Nice guy, You give your presentation. At the starting of your presentation, you friend understood that it’s a very bad presentation because major data and information are wrong but instead he/she says that “It’s a great presentation”.

You felt very confident for the presentation but next day you feel very embarrassed there and when you ask your friend that Why he/she said that so then The reply you get is “Sorry, I didn’t wanted to make you unhappy so I said it great”.

Comment your Feelings below. These types of nice guys can make you feel happy for a Short time but ultimately makes you Unhappy. So stop being dishonest. Never tell a lie in any price until something good will happen due to your lie. Always give honest review.

4. Nice guys Avoid Conflicts

Author meet a Kid whose teeth contains cavity, The kid was too cute so Author asked his that “Do you eat Chocolates”, First he denied but later he said that “Yes, I eat 2 chocolates Before sleeping.

Author again asked him that “Is your mother doesn’t tell you to brush your teeth”, Then the kid replied “Yes she tells me to brush but I do the Acting of crying and hence escape”. Author laughed at this statement but also think about it seriously that How vast the children of this era became.

So these Parents are behaving like Nice Parents that is not good for their kids. So we could not list them as Nice Guys. It’s better to become strict instead of being nice, So that you can live with integrity.

Chanakya said that From the age of 5 treat your kid with politeness and make every effort to make them happy, From the age of 5 to 15, Become too strict for them and from Age 15 – Behave with them like their Friends. This is the best way to grow a Kid.

“If you wanted to make everyone happy, Then sell Ice-cream”

Never be too nice, Your close ones also face the negative people in life so preparing them is the best way to make them happy in long term. If you always be Honest Then after a time people understands you and tell about you that you are always Right.

“Being nice is Temporary, Being Genuine is Permanent”

Summary

1. Nice guys try to change Priorities

Here we understood that May be due to your Job or Priority you have to Say No to some people but that is right for that time because If we do not give priority to our priority then Disasters will happen definitely.

We also discussed the story of Lighthouse there

2. Gratification

Here we learnt that Friends, family members and in a Network, People try to give Instant Satisfaction for the people and that is too disaster for Long term so Make Long term gratification instead of instant pleasure.

We also discussed the Examples of Parents.

3. Nice Guys are Dishonest

Sometimes People doesn’t give genuine feedbacks so that people cannot feel bad for them. But Better is that we can say the reality just on the moment instead of saying sugar coated Words so that they work on their mistakes.

Here we discussed the story of a Man who have a presentation next day but his nice friends makes situation worst where if he said right things, Things should be improved.

4. Nice guys try to avoid Conflict

To avoid conflict people let go things and stay on their comfort zone and that is not right.

Here we discussed the story of a Boy whose parents are nice guys and due to a Acting of crying done by the kid, they offer him chocolates and do no even says to brush their teeth.

There is a huge possibility that When his permanent teeth grow, They are also like that and he Avoid smiling even his friends make fun of him and most probably his Confidence will get down.

So that’s good to become Bad that time instead of wasting their future.

The motive of this article is not to become a Bad person and Do a Murder, but the motive is that Being a nice guy and showing that we are nice are two different Things.

Means if you give priority to your work then you cannot give time to people and they doesn’t think you a nice guy. May be parents teach children to not eat chocolates either their child does not think them nice but that is the Right Choice and ultimately you became the Real Nice.

Thanks for Reading

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Why you need to Become Badass? Stop being Nice!

Why you need to Become Badass? Stop being Nice!

1. Nice Guys try to change the Priority

2. Gratification

3. Nice guys are Dishonest

4. Nice guys Avoid Conflicts